Once you have found the person to catch you, don’t be afraid to free fall into love.
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Caught myself slippin'
Tried to have my cake and eat it too. I think it took you telling me how you truely felt to make me realize that I cant fuck up a good thing. D R P: My bad if it came across as me leading you on, but trust, that wasnt my intention. You have to understand that you took my trust for granted and you broke my heart. I’m not going to leave the person that is so good for me for a person who took me for granted. Dont even make me choose, cus you’ll lose. You should have realized what you had before you went out & did your dirt. You should have appreciated what you had in front of you. ITS TOO LITTLE TOO LATE. I’ve come to realize that HE is where I want to be. That means you get left in the past, which is where you belong.
Everyone should know the 80 / 20 rule. When you're in a relationship, the person you're with will give you that 80% you need. But someone will come along and is willing to give you that 20% that you want. You will then leave your 80 for a 20 , thinking you chose the best but really that's just what you lost.
( Via - SoulAmaazingx / Why Did I Get Married )
Just a thought...
BOYS: Look at a relationship with an open& iunderstanding mentality. BE PATIENT with your girl. BE more understanding & CONSIDERATE of her feelings, just like how you would want her to be. THINK before you speak. Realize that we are more sensitive than you & have a way of sometimes misinterpreting or blowing what you say out of porportion. Not everything should be made into a joke. When you try and make it a joke, it comes across as you NOT taking her seriously. There’s always a time&place for that; it’s not ALWAYS necessary. KEEP IT 100 AT ALL MOTHERFUCKINGTIMES. Honesty gets you far. Once you gain her trust, dont EVER, I mean EVER, take it for granted. Once its gone, it’s very hard to come across again. REALIZE what you have NOW & appreciate what’s in front of you. DON’T BE SELFISH. A relationship is 50/50. It’s about being self-LESS. Don’t hold anything back because then you’re not loving her the way she deserve to be. APPRECIATE that you got a girl who is independant. Be SECURE: you should know that at the end of the day, YOU are where her heart lies. LOVE hard everyday. That means use more than words. Actions speak louder than words; show her how much she means to you. If you NEVER want to lose her, hold on to her like there’s no tomorrow. Underappreciate her, & best believe the best thing that probably would ever happen to you just walked out of your life.
GIRLS: Don’t forget that your not only his girlfriend, you should be one of his BEST friend. Listen up when he’s telling you about his dreams and ambitions. DONT JUDGE HIM, thats the last thing he needs. LISTEN to your man. He needs your ears as much as you need his. BE PATIENT WITH HIM & try to understand him as much as possible. BE the support system he needs. He doesnt necessarily need you to agree with him, he jus wants to know that his girl will be there no matter what. BE HIS ROCK. Rock steady all the way. Love him unconditionally. DONT try to change him. You got with him becus of who he is, not cus of what you can make him. Do a better job at controlling your out burst. Avoid blowing things out of porportion(I’m very guilty of that). Being on your period IS NOT an excuse, anyway, shape or form. STRIVE TOGETHER. Dont tear him down & critisize him. HE DOESNT NEED ANOTHER MAMA! “JEALOUSY, WE GOTTA SWOLLOW IT.” TRUST YOUR MAN. Let him be a man! This includes letting him do things on his own & going out with the boys. The more you suffocate, the faster he’ll leave you. YOU need to be SECURE enough with YOURSELF to know that he’s coming home to you, honey, dont take that for granted. TELL HIM WHAT YOU’RE THINKING. Boys cant read our minds so speak up! Most of all, LOVE YOUR MAN. Love him with everything you got. Show him & tell him how much you love & care about him, daily. Remind him that he got with a winner.
Dancing alone because she extra fly
But I got good look so I catch her eye
Gave the rest a try now give the best a try
Leave your nest and I’ll fly make you testify
**Damn baby I know we got some haters and.
I don’t care what people say
As long as you and me okay
Because I never been in love before
See I use to be a player and
All of this is new to me
And this ain’t what I’m used to see
Because I never been in love before**
You running back to the kid like this was home base
Or a marathon I let you set your own pace
Your own space and the beautiful struggle
Now baby tell what’s it gonna take to prove that I love you
When I’m gone you be missing me too
It let me know that my prayers is the music God be listening to
Don’t get it confused I’m trying to get religious with you
I never thought I feel like this its like a miracle you
You You stole my heart like a crook in love
Crossing the bridge to the Brooklyn love
When I took above it’s clear skies that’s surrounding my earth
Your love is drugs and I’m down to serve let’s deal with it yo
We go to the spot and you still get it low
I get excited fast and still love to hit it slow
till the walls come tumbling down like Jericho
And you hear the sound is stereo
Hear we go
I don’t care what people say
As long as you and me okay
Because I never been in love before
See I use to be a player and
All of this is new to me
And this ain’t what I’m used to see
Because I never been in love before
Talib Kweli-Never Been in Love
